John Wooden won 10 national championships in 12 years, but before a single play was ever drawn up, he taught his players how to tie their shoes correctly. Confidence isn't built by what your kids hear. It's built through repeated, coached practice, the small, overlooked details most dads skip. This week, Dad Academy breaks down why real confidence starts at the bottom, and how one overlooked skill in your home could be the foundation your family needs.

Courage isn't just what you do. It's how you live. And it's reflected in what you say. The root word for courage is the Latin word cor — strength of heart. Courageous people live from the inside out. And the way we teach our kids to interact with others is training their heart. There are four phrases courageous people say: "thank you," "You're welcome," "I'm sorry, " and "I forgive you." Dads have the opportunity to model every one of them and the responsibility to train his

Discipline has two sides to the coin: confront and compliment. What you correct and what you affirm should both be driven by the same thing — your values. That's what separates reactive parenting from intentional training. When my wife and I were raising our kids, we chose to confront three things: disobedience, deceitfulness, and disrespect. And we chose to compliment three things: thoughtfulness, thankfulness, and truthfulness. Both lists. Intentional. Values-driven.

"Wait until your father gets home" defined what dad's discipline meant. He was the enforcer. The closer. But if discipline is training, then a father's role isn't just to confront bad behavior. Discipline is one way a father shapes a child's heart. And the heart is where character is formed. A father has to choose between between performance-driven discipline and values-based training. The goal of a father's discipline isn't a compliant child. It's a courageous one.