When my wife and I married I was instantly gifted with two girls and two boys...together we had one more boy, completing our family. I’ve realized my job is not to teach them to be like me; my job is to help them become more of who they already are. Our family “blends” well because we don’t consider it blended. There are no “steps” or “halfs” in our family. There are only brothers, sisters, and love.